Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Morgan Week 2 Day 3

Joelle devised some stimulators– faces of Mama and Papa on paper plates – showing her design talents. Margaret specializes in the easy ones – stripes, circles and checkerboards.. Overall Morgan seems to respond well and does not engage in too much crying. We looked – in vain - for a small black and white panda in IKEA. The range of children’s small soft toys was impressive but no small pandas. Morgan continues to make definite sparring movements and it is possible to gain his attention with visual stimulators, albeit for short spans of up to five seconds or so. Gaining attention visually is not difficult and some response is made to aural stimulators.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Morgan Week 2 Day 1

Morgan is making generally good progress, and Margaret is speaking Welsh to him as required. Black and white shapes are being shown to him and he seems to be taking notice of them. Margaret sings Welsh lullabies to him. Morgan seems to be quite strong and wiry and more diverse re expressions and laughing. Huw seems continues to be very good with him .

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Morgan Day 7

Morgan experienced a tuneful day today. We played a range of classical records as recommended by the book of words. There seems to be some response to Margaret’s Welsh lullabies but not a lot. He is rather unsettled at times but this may be due to colic. Huw seems very good with him and managed to get him to sleep for four hours after an initially restless night. Joelle is still not yet, understandably, her normal jolly self, but she responded well to the family visit by Johanna and Siva and their 4-month old baby boy, Keeran. Joelle's friend, Ee Wan, visited and gave Morgan a beautiful Folio-type book of A.A. Milne’s Pooh stories and poems. It is a collector’s item and as good as the Folio editions. Morgan certainly responds to the attention he gets, including patting and musical rhythms.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Morgan Day 6

Overall a fairly eventless day, but Morgan continues apace.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Morgan Day 5

There is a reference to swimming in Ludington-Hoe & Golant, p. 200. Newborns have the capacity to dog-paddle. If this is developed before the end of the second month the skill will be kept it seems. TodayJoelle took Morgan for a check up and blood test. Morgan seems to be a little livelier, with a greater range of facial expressions. One can just about see Huw in him – the nose I think, but to Margaret it is the mouth. He made a great show of bawling later in the day, displayed good sparring skills and seemed to be boxing - so wildly was he waving his arms up and down. He managed to throw one of his mitts off before Huw came to the rescue.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Morgan Day 4

Today both Joelle and Morgan seemed more settled. He was a better colour and had lost the redness and flushed appearance he had before. He was also feeding a little better it appeared. He was certainly livelier, showed greater variety in facial expressions and was opening his mouth. In repose he appeared to be practicing feeding! Huw and Joelle explained their educational strategy and suggested that I should provide overall direction and Margaret be the hands-on practitioner. The book ‘How to have a smarter baby’ (Ludington-Hoe & Golant, S.K., (1985 rev, 1987) seems to provide good guidelines. In particular, on pp. 175-7 there are suggestions for stimulation from the first couple of days. Margaret has started to prepare some material: black stripes, black and white checkboard and a black dot. It has also been decided that Joelle would not speak Mandarin to Morgan, and would leave that to Kelvin & Sumei. Margaret will speak Welsh to him.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Morgan Day 3

Today was Hari Raya, a public holiday, and the homecoming was expected at around midday. Sumei and Madam Fong (the confinement lady appointed to take care of Morgan and Joelle for a month) arrived in the morning, and were busy stocking up with provisions and preparing for what appeared to be an invasion. This took place as planned; Joelle, Huw and Morgan arrived on time, and so the household was duly set up with a very efficient Sumei overseeing matters. In the afternoon friends (two couples) came to see the new arrival and Joelle.